I cannot be the
only mum out there that is shocked at some of
the music that our children listen to today. I fear that I
am turning in to my mum. I have stopped listening to Radio One
and instead have Radio Two or Radio Four on all the time.
This means that a lot of the songs pass me by, until that is I
hear the boys singing them! One of the things that we have done is to
password protect the music channels as the video's for a lot of songs are
shocking today. They really do nothing to enhance the song and
the fact that the ladies wear next to nothing is not something I want my boys
to think is normal. I want them to grow up with
a healthy respect for woman and it seems that certain rappers do
not have any respect and set a bad example.
It just goes to show you that things and opinions change
when you have children.
My boys dancing whilst watching Glee Live
My boys have experienced a wide range of music and both
have clear ideas of which are their favourites. They love Queen, Green
Day, Bruno Mars, Snow Patrol, Glee, Suede, Madness, The Wanted and Eels.
You can see that they have their own likes, but they have
also picked up on a lot of our favourites too. When I was growing up my parents
had pretty eclectic music tastes. They ranged from the predictable
Beatles, The Eagles and the hits of their youth to thinks like Funk and
classical. They loved going to special music themed holidays with
friends and family and I remember going with them to see The Platters.
Back then I used to feel there was a real "them and us" when it
came to music and that it was seriously uncool to like the same music
as your parents did.
I think this stemmed from the real sea change in music
and musical attitudes in the late 50's and early 60's. Music
changed so much in those days that parents listened to one thing and children
to another. I really do not think this is the case today and this is
confirmed by the conversation we had with the boys at the weekend.
We had a day trip on Sunday and the radio was playing away when a The
Bicycle song by Queen came on and both the boys started to sing along to the
music and picked up the words really easily.
I asked MadDad when it was released and being the music font of knowledge
told me it was in the late 70’s.
When I told the boys that this
music was as old as Uncle Christopher they were shocked, but even now it
sounded contemporary in some ways and I think that it is now really hard top
tell which decade a lot of the music is from.
Plus a lot of songs have been re recorded and covered by people and it is becoming even harder to define music
by decades or generations. I think that programmes like Glee have had a lot to do with this as they use music from all decades and have introduced it to a younger generation and some of my boys favorite CD's to listen to are Glee ones and we have been known to sing along loudly to them!
When my Dad died in 2000, we
played M People at his funeral as that was his favourite band. In fact when I think of my dad I think of M People
and Elvis. Not two musical acts you
would put together, but that is the beauty of music. It doesn't define us and we are not defined by
it.
I believe the 1980's had the best music, with Stevie Wonder, Lionel Richie, Maria Mckee, etc.
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